Together

So, let’s do it—full of belief, confident that we’re presentable inside and out. Let’s keep a firm grip on the promises that keep us going. He always keeps his word. Let’s see how inventive we can be in encouraging love and helping out, not avoiding worshiping together as some do but spurring each other on, especially as we see the big Day approaching.                               Hebrews 10:22-25 (Living Bible)

We met the other day as a group of four couples who have known each other for over 40 years. We went to church together for many years, raised our families together, and now we meet to discuss and pray for our children, and grandchildren, and now, even a few great-grandchildren. Yes, we have been friends and have journeyed through life together for decades.

We met to celebrate a birthday of one of the group (which we do almost every month), and the birthday girl (who turned 81) took some time to recall all the people in her life who were so important and meaningful to her. She gave her gratitude to God who has sustained her through some very difficult times, and she listed friends, family, and others for whom she was so grateful. Gratitude is a hallmark of our group ethic.

Members of the group have attended many funerals together for parents, friends, family, and church members. We have visited one another in the hospital, attended weddings of children, prayed for one another- well, you name it. This, I contend, is a way to journey together through life.

One of the markers for a long life is strong social and spiritual connection.

I know this to be true.

Prayer: Lord, we are indeed grateful for friends who are more like family, and become strong together, Amen