Happy Father’s Day to those readers who are fathers. What a joy it is to be a father, and a grandfather! I realize that this could be a fine distinction, but I think that it is more important to be a “dad” than a father. One can be a father without much effort and planning. One must sacrifice and love deeply to be a dad.
I am blessed to be the father of two great children, and a grandfather to six amazing grandkids. My kids remind me of the times that we played “sea monster” in our living room, with them jumping on the couch to avoid the dreaded sea monster (me). Or the bedtimes when I told them what to dream. Or coaching them in little league and girls’ softball. Or road trips in cramped cars that did not always include air conditioning (yes, that was a thing).
What they may not know, is that being their dad was the greatest experience of my life. I had the privilege, as do other dads, to help shape young lives into being great productive people who love and care for others.
So, on this Father’s Day, celebrate being a dad. If you are not a dad, or a step-dad, find ways to mentor and coach young people into being responsible, loving adults. That is our job, dads of the world.
It is a great job.
Prayer: Lord, thank you for the opportunity to be a dad, Amen.
Reflections of a Counselor 